We are always ready to follow a leader, or an idea, ready to follow other people. On the other hand, we are hesitant to step over the boundaries of our habits, to step over the lines. Every time we meet another person it has a different effect on us: like two magnets we feel attracted or rejected.
But any impulse of such a meeting, negative or positive, forces us to overcome our boundaries. Taking this chance is the only way to develop our personality. We can always question ourselves and search for our polar opposite – and maybe abandon what we have been following.